Tuesday, 21 June 2016

In which I feel like St Francis of Assisi. Without the kindness bit.

Bumper animal edition today!

First, the death:  poor little Pink Red, the world’s most beloved hamster (for the first week, then ignored and subjected to much eye-rolling for the rest of his short life).  One minute he was racing around his cage, hanging upside from the bars as was his merry little wont, frolicking in recycled paper and droppings, the next... “Mummy, come quick, Pink Red is DYING!”  The Baby got it wrong, however; he wasn’t so much dying as quite dead.  That didn’t stop her from poking him and laughing and playing and fetching her dolls to line up and take a look;  nor did it stop me from being swayed by Facebook opinion that he was probably just pretending – apparently,  hamsters play possum (ironically enough) when under great stress.  Two points to note from this:  firstly, if it looks dead and smells dead (and has poo coming out of its bum and a glassy dead-eyed stare), it probably is dead.  Secondly:  if anyone or anything in my house gets to pretend to be dead because of stress, IT IS ME.  (I’m practising the glassy stare as we speak. The poo, not so much.)   Anyway, the Boy came off the school bus and was greeted with News Of The Death, and took it quite badly (poor Pink Red – his life of abandonment sandwiched between two bursts of intense masterly attention), and we had a funeral, and the Boy shed tears and had his own quiet half-hour of graveside contemplation.  (He also made a tombstone, spelling not only the deceased’s name, but his own, incorrectly. Which somehow feels fitting.)

Next up – monkeys!  Yes, my furry little garden-dwelling friends, the ones who spend most of their time working out how to dismember me.   The came a step closer to their goal yesterday when they CLIMBED INTO THE BOY’S BEDROOM.   I’d like to say that in the Fight or Flight event, I chose to fight – for myself, my children, the cats – but instead I started to shriek and shepherded all living things within arm’s reach into the nearest safe room.  Bear in mind that I hadn’t even seen the creatures;  I’d sent the Boy up to his room to fetch socks (Come ON!  You’re late! We’re late! GO!) and next thing I knew he was at the bottom of the stairs, sockless, and before I could even raise my voice he cut in with “I can’t get my socks because there are two monkeys in my room.”  Which, let me tell you, as excuses go is a pretty good one.   So I shrieked and shepherded, and shrieked some more, while our fearless helper bounded up the stairs and flung them both out the window by the power of her stare alone. (Or something. Anyway, she did what I didn’t, which was Rid The House of Monkeys.)

And THEN, as if that wasn’t enough drama / trauma for one day (the Boy can’t even speak of it;  all he’ll say is that “They just sat there.  Watching me.”) last night found me shoe-horned onto the kids’ $100 Ikea sofa watching some sort of crap on NetFlix when I noticed something saunter across the living room floor.  IT’S A RAT!  I screeched at the Man.  Don’t be ridiculous, it’s too big to be a rat, it was one of the cats, he scorned. 

Alas, I was right.  OH GOD. 

So I pegged it upstairs to get (a) the cats, and (b) the baseball bat, and both were equally ineffectual;  the baseball bat, because WHO KNEW rats were contortionists?  And the cats, because WHO KNEW they are such utter pansies when it comes to rodents?  They basically shrieked in fear and skiddadled back up the stairs, where, as far as I know, they have remained ever since.  Anyway, long story short, we got the rat out of the house, using a (bendy) broom handle and an open sliding doors, and that, as far as we were concerned, was the end of it.  (Apart from the lingering HORROR, obv.)  Until this morning, when the Girl skipped in at 720am and gleefully told me that “there’s something swimming in the pool”.... And OF COURSE it was the poor athletic rat who, we summise, had raced out of the house, full of Fear Of The (Bendy) Broom, straight into the pool, where he had swum for 9 hours straight.  And so, despite having tried to end his short disease-ridden life not half a day before, we rescued him.  And with a squeak  - Joy? Gratitude?  Fear of flying? - he soared through the air into the jungle.  (Where hopefully he’ll be eaten by the damn monkeys, thereby killing two pests with one stone.)

Next up:  The Trauma That Was The Apartment Handover.  (I’m telling you folks – it’s a laugh a minute here.)

Tuesday, 14 June 2016

A bag of hair, and other tales

It has been SO LONG since I posted a blog (on this site;  I’ve been religiously posting twice weekly  over here) that even my own father has commented on my absence.  (This is a man who has been known to distractedly eat a platter of chicken wings, and then remark they were “a bit chewy”; “Did you overcook them?”  Pause, to allow the full ramifications of his actions to settle, then:  “THEY WERE MEANT TO BE COOKED???”  So, you know, he’s not given to paying 100% attention to things.)   Anyway, I’m sorry.  Mea cupla etc.  Except not, actually *mea* culpa, but rather the culpa of life and house-moves and parenting small people, and a DEATH IN THE FAMILY. (More of which anon.)
So anyway.  Like long-distance flights with children and childbirth, I have put The Week From Hades into a closed part of my brain, and am struggling to remember anything more than the most horrific points.  It started off badly enough (which you can read about, concisely, here if you so desire) but then it just got worse and worse, and honestly I felt like I was losing my mind.  I recall thinking at one point (deliciously self-indulgently) “I’m not sure I can do this any more” – as if I was running back-to-back marathons (or even having to clean my own house, GOD FORBID.)  The movers were fairly inept, and there was much sitting around waiting for Lady to give them directions (“Maybe you could, you know, carry a few boxes out to the van?”), and when at 930pm they still hadn’t finished moving all the boxes into the new house, I may, just slightly, have gone a bit shouty and ordered them all to LEAVE NOW.  And so we (“we”, meaning the 3 children and I;  the Man was suffering his own sort of hell in a posh hotel in Japan.  “But I wish I was there helping you!”) all went to bed in my room, camping on whatever unpacked bit of cushioning we could find, and no one could sleep because of “the dark” and, later “the light” and, variously, “the quiet” and “the noise”, and there was much bed cushion-swapping, and they were a tired and cranky bunch the next day.  And I was a tired and cranky Lady who still had to give minute instructions to the unpackers (“JUST UNPACK FOR THE LOVE OF GOD”) and then, about 3,000 hours later, It. Was. Done.  (Well, sort of. In a not-really kind of way. But it’s as done as it’s going to be this side of the summer holidays (which have already kicked off for the Boy, and which see me, ALONE, dragging the three of them, ALONE, to Europe, in two weeks. ALONE.))
So.  Overall it’s fabulous to be in a house, with an upstairs and a garden and a back gate, and A POOL*.  The kids have about twenty things they can do at any one time, and if there is any bitching&moaning about Being Bored, the Bitcher&Moaner is sent to their room, which is upstairs, where bedrooms should be, and so we cannot hear a thing.  There is outside seating (with overhead fans which sound as if they are about to break free and decapitate us) and a playroom and our bedroom is big enough to swing both cats (if they ever deign to come out from under my bathroom sink, where they took up residence on day one, and have barely left. They did venture out to the garden one morning last week, but one of them met the neighbourhood bully, which scared the shit out of her (literally) and the other ate a lizard and spent the rest of the day vomiting.  So both seem to have thrown in the Towel of Adventure and are staying put on top of the spare toilet rolls, where nothing, other than a desperate TP-seeking claw, can harm them.)
There are a couple of things which are not entirely fabulous. We have monkeys in the garden, which I was alerted to on the first morning when I got home from School Run 1, to find the Alpha male sitting in the garden eating a banana handed to him by the Alpha Boy. The entire troupe made an appearance yesterday evening as we were finishing lunch, brazenly walking along the garden wall about 6 feet from us, and giving us a total Fuck You glare. (Then they sat eyeballing us for a while, sending telepathic messages to the Boy to Give Us Food.)  I like the idea of monkeys – nature and jungle and wild etc – but the Wild bit of that ideal worries me somewhat.  I’m too young to have my face ripped off!  (Actually, I am probably just the right age for such an event;  there is a decent amount of saggery allowing probably for total facial removal, but not so much that there wouldn’t be any challenge for them at all.)
Also, there is no internet (I know!  I feel like I’ve stepped back into the 80s - a feeling propounded by the house’s hideous bathrooms and kitchen) and the phone connection is very weak (we’re in the Singapore version of the Yorkshire Dales) so unless I schlep self and my ancient laptop to a Starbucks, I am basically removed from civilisation.  (Greetings from Starbucks, btw.)
On the plus side, having no internet means that when I do have internet, my blog feed is AWASH with weeks’ worth of fabulousness.  (Which reminds me, if there is any amongst you who is not familiar with this blogger, (a) get familiar quickly, and (b) buy her book.  (I say that, all authoritative, while in fact I have (SHAME ON ME) not bought her book myself.  I have tried, dammit, but it’s just not sold here.  And Singpost will either lose or steal it, and I want a real book, not a downloaded one.  Some books deserve holding, and I’m sure this is one of them.))  And I am almost weaned off the black hole of Facebook, which can only be a Good Thing.
But having said that, I have just spent my entire free two hours on the damned Facebook, and now I have to run to collect the Baby.  Usually I’m not terribly excited about having to collect her, but today is different; today she had Show & Tell, and brought in... A BAG OF HER OWN HAIR.  I can’t wait to see how that went down.
I have to run.  The Family Death will have to wait. 

(*Quite teeny tiny and more like a tarpaulin stapled into a deep hole and then filled up with tap water, rain, and the desperate tears of Lady.)  

Tuesday, 17 May 2016

Woe and Goats.

I can almost not bear to look at the blog and see when I last posted something.  Last month?  Last year?  I am busy (I know, we are all busy), but also generally sweating too much to touch a keyboard, I might get electrocuted or something.
Anyway, one of the many things I am busy with (apart from this – both the blog and the cowering under tables [truly, it is quite embarrassing, as evidenced by the time I took a mid-day nap and I was in a deep sleep when the fucking planes decided to somersault past my windows and before I knew it I had leapt out of bed, run through the apartment and hugged the nearest child AND the maid to me.  WEARING ONLY MY KNICKERS.]) is organising our house-move, which takes place in two weeks, and which will be a solo venture, as I have kicked the Man out of the apartment for travelling on business too much.  (He responded by getting on a plane and going to... somewhere – Korea, I think - for a week.)  
Back home – “home” being anywhere that is not Singapore – house-moves are stressful because you have all the crap you’ve accumulated, and you have to open cupboards which haven’t been opened since you stuck a load of boxes in them the day you moved in, and ARGH the carpets need cleaning because the children haven’t learnt that you can pause Netflix and then go to the toilet.  Here – different kettle of fish (horrible rusty kettle and mean, snapping piranhas.)  Basically you have to give the property back to the landlord in better condition than you took it. That deposit of two months’ rent he took off you a couple of years back?  He’s spent it.  (Truly.  No escrow accounts here.) So he’s a bit peeved to have to pay it back, and will do WHATEVER IT TAKES to avoid doing so.  It is all deeply stressful. (Also, beware cheap foldy-up kids’ chairs which cost $2.  They, and their sticking-out-of-the-bottom-sharp-nails are both a false economy, and the enemy of wooden floors everywhere.)
So with this on my mind – the "weathered" floorboards and the cat scratches and the walls which look like they’ve been riddled with machine-gun fire (when in fact it was just a few paintings which we couldn’t quite work out where to hang) – I promptly crashed into my neighbour’s car while parking my own this afternoon.  Have we spoken about cars here?  Cars – and houses – are the reason Singapore is the most expensive place to live in the world.  They are RIDICULOUSLY expensive.  (You lot look at property porn;  here, we get our tissues out and log on to English Auto Trader.)  You know the way in London you see someone crawling around at 10mph in a Lambourghini and you think What a Twat?  Here, you think – Fucking hell that car cost $2m, what a Twat. So anyway, my neighbour drives a beautiful, shiny, brand new RANGE ROVER, which hasn’t a scratch on it.  Hadn’t.    Sigh.  (There followed much texting with my Textpat wife about WHAT WILL I DO?  - because I was hoping she’d say – Oh it’s fine, there’s this magic wand you can get which will fix it straight away – but there isn’t, and she didn’t.)
AND THEN, to add to the general woe, I fell off my bicycle, and the Baby was strapped into the back, so she fell too, and there was a couple of seconds before we fell when I thought – I’m about to fall and there’s nothing I can do about it except try to take the weight of the bike and the baby on my ankle.  Which I did, so now I am LAME. (The Boy, incidentally, would agree with that in his most whole-hearted faux-American way.)
On the plus side, I made this for some school thing for the Boy: 

(Which is the face of a goat) And so successful was it (it’s not really, I know, but the Boy is urban and has no clue what a goat is meant to look like) that I have now been commissioned to make a snake.  A SNAKE!  The effing goat took about 6 hours, a snake – I don’t even know where to start.    I also made this:  

which is Paneer in a Butter-Tomato sauce, and is the sort of thing that Angels write songs about;  and clearly I took the picture from the book, but in fact my dish looked just like that (not as nicely presented, obv).  I don’t have the wherewithal to give you the recipe now, I’ll do it next time.
Oh, and there was also this, which is the Baby and friend looking at an aquarium. Except it’s not an aquarium, it’s THE SEA.  (I guess it hasn't all been busy-running-around-stressy-crashing after all.)

Right.  I must go and pack boxes and crash modes of transport and generally make my day deserving of a very large drink come 7pm. 

Oh, and if anyone has any clues about Getting Boys To Listen, or Encouraging Girls To Read, I’m all ears.  
Oh II.  THIS.  The funniest thing on the internet today. 

Thursday, 21 April 2016

The body of a child, the head of a walrus.

Just when I thought the school runs couldn’t get any worse, they did.   I now have an additional 22km leg, which is hideous, although not without its moments of amusement:

I should point out that this car was the only one involved in this accident.  Actually, I’m not even sure that you can call such fuckwittage-ness an accident - there has to have been some element of intent involved.  How else would you get your car up onto the central reservation of a highway – backwards?  (You can also see me being scathing about it over here.)
Otherwise,  nothing else of any interest is happening here.  I am driving driving driving the live-long day (7am-920am;  130pm-245pm;  then usually some sort of late afternoon child-ferrying), about which you will have to take my word is even more dull for me than it is for you.  (Today’s whirling ball of stress was spiced up by a forgotten – and crucial – gym bag, so off I went, a dutiful little parenting lamb, spitting nails and muttering to myself, and worrying people in cars nearby who could see me yelling and banging the dashboard with my fist.)
So you can understand the MAJOR excitement yesterday when my textpat spouse dragged me off to the Singapore equivalent of Costco – I was *this* close to crying off, zombified as I am these days and unwilling to do ANY MORE DRIVING (this place is as close to Malaysia as you can get without finding that the government has slipped a couple of million into your bank account – or, more likely, taken it out) but she lured me with the promise of cheap groceries and European produce, and SHE WOULD DRIVE.
Reader, it was wonderful.  We oohed and ahhhhed and caressed things, and instantly signed up, and then piled our trolleys high with such items of wonderousness as this:

And this:

I concede that this isn’t such a big deal really – oh look, a large supermarket which sells stuff – but for me, starved of grocery-novelty, it is HEAVEN.  (I have just had the cider and it was the sweet Somerset nectar of the Gods.)   
By the time I got home from Round II of my new favourite game, Is My Arse Now The Same Shape As the Car Seat?, a large sea was falling from the sky and we were all wet and cold – or close to cold as you can get when the temperature has plummeted to a chilly 27° - and I found myself thinking wistfully of the crates of instant Cup A Soup I had poo-pooed in Singaporean Costco Eden. So instead I made my own, which took 20 minutes, and was so good I finished the lot.
Just when I was starting to think that maybe, on balance, it wasn’t the worst day I’d ever had, I brought the Baby to the doctor where a sweet, quiet, similar-aged deigned to pick up and use her abandoned sticky plaster, and the Baby screamed at her with such vehemence that both the girl and her mother got quite upset and when the abuse continued - through my mouth-clasping hand - they actually got up and left the surgery!  And if that wasn't enough SHAME AND HORROR, she later asked a boy at the taxi stand if "you is wearing a mask, or is you just weird-looking?"  
He wasn't wearing a mask.
And not for the first time yesterday I wished that I could just lie down on the ground and go to sleep.

20 Minute / Almost Instant Cup A Soup

(This is basically carrot and lentil soup.   Which is not to be knocked, as it is a thing of delight and wonderousness.)

You need:  (for about two large bowls / four cups /one distended stomach)
  • Some oil – olive / whatevs
  • Clove of garlic, crushed
  • One carrot
  • Four handfuls of dried red lentils (I’m starting my own measuring system)
  • About 1 litre of stock (whatever you have)
  • Squeeze of lemon.
  • Handful of fresh coriander (optional)

Heat the oil, and add the crushed garlic.
When it’s starting to sizzle grate the carrot directly into the pot.  Stir well, add a splash of stock, and leave to bubble for a couple of minutes.
Add the lentils and the rest of the stock.  Bring to the boil, then cover and simmer for about 10-15 mins, or until the lentils are soft. 
Puree with a machiney thing, mash with a mashey thing, or leave as is.  Add a squeeze of lemon and chopped coriander, if you have it.
THAT’S IT. 
Eat with an accompanying bottle of cider, while Googling "ways to temporarily mute small children".


Friday, 15 April 2016

Bleeding from my sun-sizzled eyes.

As predicted, the multi-school-drop-off mornings are a total PITA, and I am exhausted.  God knows how the Girl – currently lying on her bed, catatonic (although happy and content in her new school, so hurrah for that) – feels. (Apart from sartorially ashamed: she got dollied up in her new school uniform, which is  straight out of the 80’s - the 1880’s - took one look at herself and burst into tears, announcing that she looked like one of Santas’s elves. Which was totally spot on, she did.)  The alarm goes off at some unearthly hour – there is still mist over the trees and the sun is not yet up – and I roll, asleep, out of bed and into the shower.  Then I tiptoe into her room, pick her up – asleep – and dress her – still asleep.  Five minutes later she is in the car, still asleep, seat completely reclined, and off we set.  (To the North Pole, where all the other elves learn how to count.)  
By the time I’m home – usually by 8am – and getting ready for the next interminably long, boring school run, the sun is up and setting about blistering the skin off anyone stupid enough to be out.  It is SO HOT here at the moment.  I actually saw a Singaporean sweat the other day.  That’s how hot it is.  
But it isn’t all hiding from the burning furnace of the outdoors and trying to get the air-conditioning in the car to stop me from nodding off as I hurtle down a motorway.  I have a new project!  Here it is.  I suspect it will only be vaguely entertaining if you are also an expat in Singapore, but come say hello anyway.  We plan on updating it every day, which is not only insane -  because who has the time / energy to try to be amusing 7 times a week?  - but also highly unlikely, because who can text when the sun has singed the ends of their fingers and driving fatigue has them lying in the cats’ basket  beside a fan?  - but swing by and check on us from time to time if you remember.  (It’s planned as part of a longer-term project which we will get around to just as soon as the temperature falls below to 37°, and the kids have left school.) 
Speaking of the cats, I put them on a diet a few weeks ago – because they were getting ridiculously fat and lazy, and if I’m not allowed to be fat and lazy then no one is the house is – and they got all skinny and evil for a while, but now they’re somehow back to being big-boned.  I could not work this out – where are they getting the food? – until this morning when, tip-toing to the Girl’s room I stumbled across the Baby tip-toing out of hers.  It turns out that the one thing I didn’t consider when I moved her into a Big-Girl Bed recently was that she might get up before dawn and go feed the cats, then go back to bed and go back to sleep for a while. 
You see? School-run fatigue.  It’s wrecking my head.


Tuesday, 5 April 2016

I think I see light!

We’re neck-deep in school holidays at the moment, aka The Holidays That Never End.   This endlessness has not  been helped by the kids all now being on different school schedules, so their holidays overlap ever-so-slightly, like a well-made potato gratin (just not as comforting or welcome), meaning what should be a week and a half is now four.  We’re two and a half down, and I’m feeling a bit murderous.  Also,  nothing is getting done – not the birthday present buying, nor the tax-filing, nor the much-needed physical attention (legs, toes, bikini regions) – instead every day is a long stretch of howarewegoingtopassthetime.
I decided to fill part of yesterday – well, an hour – by bringing the Girl for a cycling lesson.   Paying someone to teach your kid to cycle is quite a thing here, propelled, I suspect, by two factors:  the fact that there is no decent, easily accessible  outdoor space where you can safely teach your little one yourself;  and the general lethargy amongst most people when it comes to standing out in the searing heat and blood-boiling humidity yelling at / catching / chasing after your small person.    Also, the teacher is sortof legendary here – 100% success rate, no nonsense local – and he is literally across the road from us,  AND I just want her to cycle so that we can get on with trying to find Things To Do As A Family which don’t make me weep tears of blood, AND the Man keeps talking about teaching her but never quite getting around to doing it.  So I signed up (I can’t bring myself to tell you how much it cost) (okay, it cost $80) and off they went.  She got on so well in fact, that after a few minutes the Baby and I wandered off to the cake shop to ruin our appetites and kill some time.  Something was niggling, however.  I’d forgotten to do something. Something... important...  Which I remembered as soon as the Bicycle Man called me 20 minutes later, barely audible above the screeching in the background.  Dammit!  I’d forgotten to either say goodbye to the Girl, or even inform her of my departure.  Which isn’t the worst parenting in the world  - unless of course you look at it from her point of view: I’d brought her to a block of flats, handed her over to a total stranger, money had changed hands, and I completely disappeared.  Which I suppose could be interpreted as the worst parenting in the world.  (In my defence, I paid him;  if it was the other way around, I could somewhat understand the hysterics.)
And boy was she hysterical.  Screeching like a skinned cat.  So, less than half-way through her $80 lesson, we sloped off home,  her sobbing and distressed, me thinking:  Fuck!  That was an expensive trauma session.  Less than 7 hours later, she was back in the saddle again, and I was another $80 lighter.  Nothing like throwing bad money after  good (or is it good after bad? Either way, there was quite a bit of money being thrown around.) Immediately the hysterics recommenced until, 10 minutes in, the teacher announced (unnecessarily angrily, considering he was getting $160 for  half an hour’s work)  that there was nothing he could do; she was, basically, unteachable.
Reader, I fixed her. Nothing  repairs a traumatised 5 year old like the sweet nectar of a lollipop.  The sugar shut down the malfunctioning emotional circuitry, and we were back on (cycle) track.  (But do you think I got a cut of the $160 for services to bicycling-kind?  Bollox I did.)  It’s still a work in progress, but she no longer shudders when she hears the whoosh of a passing cyclist, so my job is done.
Except of course it isn’t.  I’ve another week and a half of this lark left.  GOD HELP ME.
It hasn’t been all bad however.  Last week I had an epiphany of sorts:  I am through the tunnel! The tunnel of despair. The tunnel of exhaustion. The tunnel of PARENTING SMALL CHILDREN.   This struck me at a toddler group which one of my friends runs, when I looked around and realised that everyone else had lots and lots of toddlers and babies, as well as that blank, glassy-eyed look of the un-dead – and I didn’t.  Not the toddlers, nor the babies, not the glassy-eye.  I made myself a cup of tea and chatted away (as much as you can chat with someone who hasn’t slept in four months) and felt really quite smug.  And then a baby was handed to me and I put him on my shoulder, whereupon he promptly disgorged the contents of his stomach on me.  And this is when the epiphany truly kicked in:  I wasn’t nonplussed or understanding or  unphased.  I was, I’m ashamed to say, a bit disgusted.  

DISGUST!  I have moved past shoulder-cheese! I AM DONE.  (She says, as she spends 2 hours putting the children – repeatedly - to bed.  Everything’s relative folks, everything’s relative.) Woo hoo!  

Tuesday, 22 March 2016

Red Faces

Occasionally, when the Man and I are desperately casting around for something to feel parentally smug about, we remind  each other that notwithstanding over 2 years of Equatorial living, our children have yet to ever get sun burnt.   SUN-SCREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEN, we roar at them, as they slither out of our grasp and disappear into the pool, then slather it on as they wriggle and complain and whinge and announce that they DON’T CARE ABOUT SUNBURN, and HOW BAD COULD IT BE ANYWAY?
I’m not sure what happened to my brain this weekend, but having screeched at the Boy to GET OUT OF THE POOL AND PUT ON YOUR SWIM TOP,  I then completely and utterly forgot to follow up with sunscreen.  No, I don’t get  it either.  Especially as I’d slathered the other two.  (I suspect my mind was on the drinks menu.  It was Sunday!  We were at the beach! The sun was shining! Alternatively, I’m getting old and stupid.  Or, both.)
Anyway, we had a lovely day – 5 long, scorching hot, uninterrupted hours - where the rays bounced off the pool and the sea and the white sand, and the Boy’s pale European skin absorbed it all.  We were in the car when I realised that he was actually quite red.  By the time we got home, he was really red.  By bedtime, I had never seen anything quite so red (which wasn’t associated with childbirth).  He was actually so burnt that I had to give him paracetomol and get up in the middle of the night to re-apply his Sudocream.  (I’m Irish, OF COURSE Sudocream works on sunburn.  Also on tumours and dismemberments.)
Anyway, on the plus side I don’t think anyone in the house is going to wriggle or complain or whinge any more during sunscreen application. (Hurrah!  never again will I be asked how bad it could be anyway.)  On the downside –  apart from the guilt and the shame and the forthcoming freckles and impending skin cancer – the Boy is clearly traumatised by it. Here’s yesterday’s school self-portrait:  

(I’m calling it:  Snowman with Sunburn).

Speaking of trauma, I got trolled this weekend!  Yes!  I’ve never been trolled before. (Actually I have, but with just one teeny flick of the wrist, the trolling is removed and we all pretend it never happened.)  I wrote a piece for a newspaper about my relationship with my home country (spoiler alert: I MISS IT) and this got the trolls all salivating and frenzied.  Which amused me 80% and pissed me off about 20%.  Oh trolls.  Where do you get your energy?  Please send me some, and also gin (because apparently I am depressed and disillusioned.) Also, send some friends (again, apparently I don’t have any.)  And aloe vera. 
Actually, I mean the last one.